Again!!! I had a dream and I was pregnant!!!!!!

It's all in a package!!
The 4 men with 4 different Charateristics!

Dear man 1,

You must have small eyes, and "bah bah" aka meaty meaty! You can be balding because hair doesn't really matter.
You don't have to earn alot, just enough to feed yourself and the family.
Surprise me with surprises because I'm not very good at that.
Don't try to be corny and hold my hand in theatres, my hand looks good in the light too!
You have to be very vocal, not afraid to show your emotions and tell me how you feel about things.
Even though I change my mind in a snap, I can change it back again. So you better treat me like the only apple in your eye!
My girlfriends must like you too!!

Dear man 2,

You don't have to be drop dead gorgeous but decent looking. Dressing is quite important, and no you don't have to dress like it's a red carpet event, just decent! I don't expect flip flops on our movie date!!
Your career is very important, that monthly pay check is also VERY important.
I don't mind you working long hours and being dedicated to work as I need you to always be HAPPY to sponsor my shopping. Don't worry because I would shop for you too!!
You have to be patient with me, screaming will be you no-where because I'M LOUDER!!!
Of course romance has to be in the air, have you met my parents? Lovey dovey after so many years...you have to learn that!

Dear man 3,

Hi tall and good looking!! What made me lay my eyes 1st on you is that you're tall!!
Your wardrobe doesn't really bother me, but when we're out and with my friends please make sure you're decent.
You don't have to earn millions but just make sure you're able to provide for the basics and by that I mean, holidays, an occasional branded bag, the dream house and that car.
Keep your handphone next to you at all times because you have to be there whenever I need you! However, I might not reply your text though~
But if I were to choose a movie date with my girls and you, I would choose you! So don't worry~
I like it when you're chauvinistic but erm....I also wear the pants!!!
Oh yah, like man 2 you have to be patient too!

Dear man 4,

Even though in 20years time you might need a walking stick, it doesn't matter!
Because you're older and wiser and definitely more stable. I have no time for all those childish whines and uncertainty of your future.
I love it that you're more experienced and able to surprise me with knowledge!
You have to have your career, and NO! you can't be that office boy for as long as you live!
Work well, earn well and it makes us both happy people!! I can provide my own shopping, but you are definitely welcome to chip in ALOT!!
You have to be independent because I will be independent too~
You have to be a little like men 2, romance has to be in the air and I don't mind your long hours at work~
I'm happy, you're happy!

Dear All 4,

If you're looking for a housewife which will only wash, cook, clean and look after kids. GO LOOK SOMEWHERE ELSE!!!
We're not looking to become stupid woman with no knowledge and only know the price of chickens and can't even afford to buy a dress without you!

Love,
Sex and the City package 4

Last night I had a dream...
I dreamt that I was pregnant...WAS..
because I gave birth, and it is a very cute baby boy!!
I was very happy!!!

In the dream, I was very busy with work and had to entrust the care of my baby boy to my mummy~
It was so real!!! I woke up...went back to sleep...woke up..went back to sleep~
and everytime I went back to sleep, the dream continues!!!

However, in my dream I was not married. Baby didn't have a daddy~

I can't upload photos here!! Why??

Oh well, Had fun at Eugene's 21st!! Drank till like BLEAHHH!! *vomit face*
After Twang's birthday I dislike vodka pear...
Now I can really confirm....'I HATE VODKA PEAR!!!!!'

And found it so gross that called Pear at 3.30am in the morning to tell him :" I hate vodka pear!!"
This is what people do when they are high!! Heh heh~
Many apologies to Pear though...
who asked him to once call me at 4.30am and ask me to at prata! A tit for a tat!!

okok...I'm off to have dinner with B!
Driving in the rain is really scary~

Today I turned my phone off.......
After Eugene's phone call at 10am and a few text messages I have recieved before 10am, the rest is unknown to me now.....

We had a talk and we realise that "me" time, as important as it is, it doesn't really happen.
Mobile phones are distracting, a convinient source but also a reason why "me" time doesn't happen. Hence we made that decision this morning.

If anyone is trying to contact me, I'm alive.
Just that today is a special and rare day, I'm not working, B isn't working.
It is a trial day with no distractions from anything else.....
A house, Two people, Two computers, Tv, DvDs, food and water.


We survive.

The ladies can take the initiative for certain things in the relationship...
1st to ask the other out on a date, holding hands, kissing, even sex!

But in all due respect for sexual equality and all...
A lady shouldn't be the 1st to say the 3 words.
The 3 vital words which we tend to want to say at a early stage, the 3 words which makes us go weak on the knees.......
That 3 words we SHOULD let the other species take the initiative, because we are already vulnerable beings.
The minute we say it 1st makes us even MORE vulnerable to everything!!


"I love you." Isn't just words, it's all emotion.

Well the thing is, woman are emotionally driven whereas men are not as emotional as us and are probably more cautious in taking their feelings to another level.
If you say it 1st, it might be pressure on him on how to answer you.

So even if you feel like you are about to blurt out "I love you", remember he might not reached that level yet.
Give him more time and let him say it first, he takes a longer time to feel that when he really means it.

Let the man take the lead on this one!